Pre Matrimonial Investigation
Marriage is a bond of holy matrimony where two people and their families accept one another, take responsibility for each other and promise to stand by each other forever in life. May it be good times or bad times, healthy or ill, poor or rich, these promises are made by keeping in mind of every circumstance. Marriage is the beginning of another life, a life within a life one can say. It starts with celebrating your newly born relationship with your spouse and their family to building your own family with your partner.
Trust and faith are the basic foundation of any relationship and marriage is one such bond where even a single lie can ruin multiple lives. One lie tends to another, which leads up to ten more. A lie can never be hidden for a longer period of time, the truth will always shine brighter than the lies no matter how hard you try. It is therefore advised and said by elders that you should never lie in your relationships as it could completely mangle it.
Arrange marriage is a common practice in India where usually your parents meet first and they decide on your behalf that whom you should get married to and spend the rest of your life with. It is a weird concept though.
If you are the one who is going to spend the rest of your life with someone then you must have all the rights to make sure you are getting married to a good-hearted person. If you believe your parent’s choice is the best and will always be the best, that’s a good belief then. But what if they make a mistake? What if you make a mistake in choosing your life partner?
No one comes with an assurance letter in their hands saying that they will never lie to you, hide things from you or bother you. No one will ever hold your hand and make you walk through the darkest allies of their hearts. All this is going to uncover when you get married to that person. There’s no guarantee that your future partner will or will not be a good person. Don’t you think it will be way better if you already know the ins and outs of their lives, their families and their darkest truths?